tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post3458803446653950715..comments2021-03-02T13:08:04.730+00:00Comments on Attempting the Ordinary: .. and it still hurtsATO Mumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13283109498023417784noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-32019410329389460862012-12-22T10:52:12.164+00:002012-12-22T10:52:12.164+00:00thank you.. and yep, it is definitely much more ab...thank you.. and yep, it is definitely much more about him than it is about me.. just wish he'd sort himself out!! Hope you have a great Christmas too - with the festive pox!! xxATO Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283109498023417784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-40763979928674423972012-12-22T10:38:48.254+00:002012-12-22T10:38:48.254+00:00Please don't take heed of his comments about n...Please don't take heed of his comments about not knowing who you are. From all the things I have read about Crush, he's done so much hot n cold blowing that it's hard to know who he really is. I'm so sorry that it's making you feel so shitty. If it's any help I'm thinking about you and hoping that your Crimbo has some peace and joy.<br />The Krakenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01402921155642668933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-20073362064729325922012-12-22T10:38:15.274+00:002012-12-22T10:38:15.274+00:00Thank you - much appreciated! It is just hard righ...Thank you - much appreciated! It is just hard right now... but I guess it does just need time. <br />And if I ever decide to reveal my RL identity you'll be the first to know! xxATO Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283109498023417784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-77622632118623893992012-12-22T10:35:23.779+00:002012-12-22T10:35:23.779+00:00Thank you! And I think the stuff about different a...Thank you! And I think the stuff about different aspects to personalities is mostly him projecting his own stuff on me... which doesn't really make it any better! Have a great Christmas too xxATO Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283109498023417784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-71522524388561340762012-12-22T10:21:00.984+00:002012-12-22T10:21:00.984+00:00Oh I think you're allowed to still hurt - I wi...Oh I think you're allowed to still hurt - I wish I could say something to magically make it better - and at the risk of stating the obvious, how much harder it must be to see the boys affected to. You have to console yourself with the fact that it's not your fault, that you ARE you and true to yourself, and if he can't respect and accept that, then there isn't much you can do about it - you don't want to change yourself to conform to what he thinks he wants - that would be the worst irony.<br /><br />I hope you can have some peace and joy this Christmas. Lots of love and well done on the EP sales. Makes me wish I knew who you were in RL so that I could buy it too ! xxxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11838426651793558151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3673402557605809259.post-51252817469659918062012-12-22T09:52:22.916+00:002012-12-22T09:52:22.916+00:00I'm sorr it's taking time. It is very hard...I'm sorr it's taking time. It is very hard, not least when you've had some unpleasant run ins following some better ones. Aside from humans being allowed to be complex, I think people without children often don't get that when having children, aspects of your personality will change and it is not always appropraite to behave in one said way. I know it won't be any consolation, but if he can't see someone genuine staring him in the face, that is his issue. But merry christmas and good luck with the EP sales. xxxmousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573595683899488691noreply@blogger.com